The More You Know
Did you know that oven doors have built-in locks? Ours does. And I know this. Now, that is. It would have been nice to know before I smelled burning plastic while pre-heating for some cookies. Sawyer wanted to give his plastic stethoscope a tan, apparently. It got more of an incineration though, and I found it dripping hot down through the racks and into the bottom of the oven. TASTY. And not harmful in the least when those fumes leach into your food! I guess I should have listened to my mom when she would preach about “Always LOOK inside before you turn on the oven!” Yes, Mother.
I must be doing something right though, because my two-year-old says please and thank you. “Mommy, I want a banana, please!” Which I’m happy to oblige, and feel all giddy because as soon as I hand it to him, he says, “Thanks, Mom!” (Oh and yes, he calls me just ‘Mom’ sometimes. Isn’t he too young for that?) AND, he throws the peel away on his own. He’s quite fascinated with the trash can, actually, which is nice for me because now I can easily convince him to throw anything away for me. Of course, now is when many toys will begin to go missing, as I’ve already rescued Diego’s maned wolf from the bottom of the bag twice.
Despite being incredibly curious and just way too smart for his own good, he really is a pretty easy kid. Which bring’s me to Fizzledink’s question of how we transitioned him out of the crib. And I feel kind of stupid saying this – but I honestly don’t know. Sawyer has always been such a good sleeper that it wasn’t much of a bump in the road at all for us. He started sleeping through the night, with no help at all from us, at around three months old. Since then, we’ve had a couple bouts of night waking but nothing that lasts more than a week.
So when the time came to think about breaking out the Big Boy Bed, I really wasn’t worried. I was probably a tad over-confident, but at that point in parenting I’d never really had any incident with him that had knocked me on my ass too hard (no worries though, Beckett fixed that for me!)
His crib is the type that turns into toddler bed so one day when I was eight or so months pregnant, we decided to just go for it. No careful planning or a course of action, just cold turkey. (Which really makes me think I’m probably not the best person to be giving advice on this subject, but well, I’m already halfway through the story.) We wanted him out of the crib before the baby got here so we wouldn’t have to worry about that on top of a newborn.
So that night, I had his bed all made up with comfy blankets and a big cushy pillow, and we took him in like normal and put him in it. Said goodnight, gave him kisses, and shut the door. Now, this part is this single most important thing we did: we put a gate on his door. I honestly don’t know how we would have remained sane if it weren’t for that gate. Him coming out of his room multiple times? Possibly wandering the house at night when we’re sleeping? No thank you. Not to mention that the bedrooms are upstairs and I’d had visions of him tumbling down them in the dark. So the gate was a safety precaution as well as peace of mind for me.
In hindsight though, I think it definitely helped to teach him that once we put him in his room and put the gate up, it means bed time. The gate is not there during the day so he can go in and out. The first night of the Big Boy Bed, he didn’t get out of bed a single time. He went right to sleep without a peep. Of course, that was the calm before the storm, because the next few nights were a relay race of running up the stairs and putting him back in bed because he’d stand at the gate and yell for us. It didn’t take long for him to catch on, though. Now, if he gets up, we just ignore him and 99% of the time, he gets back in bed and goes to sleep himself. Occasionally he’ll want something, like a drink or a hug or a story, and we always get him whatever he needs.
He was about 18 months old when we made the transition so he’s been sleeping in his bed successfully for close to ten months. Naps, however, are another story and he generally refuses them now (although he did used to take them just fine, even in the toddler bed). So I have no advice there. Except that sometimes, you may need to turn the bed to the wall so the kiddo can’t get out repeatedly (if you have a crib that has been transitioned, that is). We’ve had to do this a handful of times when he was extra defiant to show him that we mean business.
I have to add though that very rarely did he ever cry or act scared to be in the bed. We’ve never had to sit with him until he fell asleep or do anything else drastic. So, again, probably a sign that I’m not the best person to get advice from. But this was my experience and I hope that it helps somewhat. I think the key is consistency and probably the best thing you can do is to just keep trying, keep putting them back in the bed, and don’t give in. Of course, if you truly feel that your child isn’t ready yet, then by all means, don’t force it. Take a break and try again in a week or so.
And now that I feel like a The More You Know commercial, I’ll end with a video of Beckett from a few days ago. He can clap! *sniff*
Aw, I feel so special to have warranted a whole post! (Even if the story makes me think, well, maybe I should have just given it a few more days at our house.)
I heard the gate-on-the-door advice from a friend of my mom’s the other day – and now seeing that it worked for you, too – makes me think that the next time we try it, we’ll do that.
I’ve got a flurry of relatives visiting for the next two weeks, so I won’t be repeating the toddler bed experiment until all of that is over. But, thanks for sharing.
I love how Beckett found the random bit of yumminess on the floor and stopped crawling to put it in hhis mouth. How adorable!
See – times like this when I realize how big R is getting is when I KNOW I want a third!
Although I wish I could skip the toddler age of all my kids.
Again — your boys = adorable!
Beckett is getting so big. He’s adorable!
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